We may ask in ourselves,what are the things that I done this year that is fruitful whether this is small or big things that we may consider it helps to our family,friends,church and to the community.You may think that atleast you done something not because you force to do it but because of your love and concern.One test of your personality whether you are pattern to others is that do you possess the fruits of the Spirit mentioned in the bible verse.
Galatians 5:22-23 says but the fruit of the Spirit is love,joy,peace,long-suffering,kindness,goodness,faithfulness,meekness,self-control;...You may think that you may be able to love different kinds of people but in reality human love is limited unless we are in Christ then we can show true love to others. Another thing the word peace,this is the fruit of righteousness.It stated in some portion of the explanation of new testament recovery version that if we are righteous,right,and proper toward others,toward things,and toward God,we will have a peaceful relationship with others and with God.Thus,we will have joy in the Holy Spirit and,in particular before God.
Any problem regarding character of a person may just indicate that there should be process to be done. As long that we received Christ and allow Him to work in us and take Him as our life,person,strenght,wisdom and everything then we will discover in the future that our way of living is such a pattern to all.